Dating and marriage in the bible
First things first, let's separate how the world views dating from how God wants us to handle the period of time before a couple gets married.
According to 2 Peter -20, God's way is totally contradictory to the way the world says unmarried couples should act.
Is the person committed to becoming more like Jesus (Philippians 2:5) or do they lead a selfish life?
Does the person show love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control, which are the fruits of the spirit (Galatians -23)?
Sadly, this is a very self-centered way of entering into a relationship.
This view is all about pleasing ourselves—not loving and serving another person.
Colossians says, "Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord." That said, let's take a look at what the Bible says about romantic relationships.
God's view of romance is different from the world's view.When you've committed to another person in a romantic relationship, remember to keep God as the most important Person in your life (Matthew ).You should never place anything or anyone over God because that is considered the sin of idolatry (Galatians ; Colossians 3:5)—even if you mean very well and love the person unconditionally.God's view of romance is quite different from the world's view.He wants us to first discover a person's innermost character, who they really are when no one is looking, before we decide to make a commitment of the heart.