Dating your next door neighbor
My best friend ended up dating her next-door neighbor and they are about to get married! I would love to hear stories from different people who have done this... So by the time he got the nerve to go for it, I was totally caught off guard. It was a little wierd at first but we just try and respect each other's space and be mature adults. It just got me to thinking, would you take a chance on dating a neighbor? My best friend ended up dating her next-door neighbor and they are about to get married! When guys do this to me, I tend to get the vibe they aren't interested and I back off myself. OP, maybe she got sick and tired of being your little make out toy. save your conversation for your dates and actually WAIT to call between dates.. If someone doesn't reply to your text in a couple hours these days, they got it but don't feel inclined enough to answer it.This sends the wrong signal and almost turns into a game. How about asking her out on a real date like a grown up? If you had this RESTRAINT before, you would have been knew her inside and out by now ;-)What's going on with BETTY IS THAT HER INTEREST IS SLOWLY DECLINING... That's why you call to prevent choppy communication Usually when woman is "busy" it means "I am losing interest in you and hope you will eventually disappear every time you hear me say 'I'm busy' so I don't have to truthfully tell you I have lost interest."Also, if you haven't had sex yet and are only having Everything-Except-Sex slumber parties, she is probably wondering why you haven't nailed her to the mattress yet.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!
It just got me to thinking, would you take a chance on dating a neighbor? I can see where it will be awkward if we break up, but we live in a small apartment complex and if one of us had to move it wouldn't be that big of a deal.I've started seeing my neighbour (we'll call her Betty) for the passed month (I'm 28 and she's 25).We became friends before we started liking each other and about a month ago I made the move and the kiss was well received.Then slowly all the text messages and phone calls become less and less. And also just like dating at work is a bad idea, so is dating your neighbor. As others have repeated, she let you know she was busy.You may hear excuses like she's not feeling well or working OT, red flags for sure. I simply do not understand why you have such an insecurity. You maybe powerless over this new budding love you feel for this woman, but you should maintain the power over your own actions.