Ex boyfriend joined dating site
My ex and I broke up and I had to move a few states back home after living with him for a year.
I found out, not from him, that he had signed up on a dating site the night I left.
I recently found out he was a member of some sort of sex/dating site thing.
I looked at his profile and was not happy with what I read on it — things like he loved going out drinking then going home for ‘fun in the bedroom’ and stuff like that. He was honest about it and told me that he signed up for the site when he was with his previous partner (their relationship was really bad for ages, mainly because of her, and he only stayed with her as long as her did because he was in love with her and thought things would get better).
Grant you, he might be more willing to move on sooner but in actuality, anyone he hooks up with right now is rebound....chances are he has not completely given himself some time to get over your relationship. Reagrdless, we should not judge people, but if you are left to draw a conclusion, it should be by what someone does rather than what they say. Just to let it be known, I have been the dumper in all my break ups. I started dating my current boyfriend less than a month from my second break up.
We do each other favours, go for a drink or dinner, and help each other out.
Now I find it kind of odd, because he hadn't done anything with it before I talked to him (I checked sometimes.
I know it's not healthy really, but I am coping fairly well and felt I could handle it).
But he’s got problems he doesn’t seem terribly committed to fixing.
Unless you want to get sucked into more drama, I’d MOA from this one, and leave him to his sex stories with his new friends on the sex site he can’t figure out how to cancel.